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  • Talking with gravity

    Understanding Boys by Tom Harkin June 15. 2018

    It can be difficult to talk emotionally and with vulnerability, but we shouldn’t let this deter us from creating the space for young people to speak. Listen to Tom Harkin talk about how to give our teenagers the courage to have conversations with depth and gravity.

  • Tough conversations with your teen

    Understanding Boys by Tom Harkin June 01. 2018

    It can be difficult to hear about what your son feels challenged by. Listen to Tom Harkin talk about how to cultivate the courage to ask the tough questions and let our teens know that we are there to see the challenges through with them.

  • Quick tips to help your teen open up

    Understanding Boys by Tom Harkin May 23. 2018

    Our teenagers are often worried about the intensity that will follow if they open up – but given the right environment, they really want to talk – and to be heard.

  • Why your son needs you to be an “Emotional Role Model”

    Understanding Boys by Tom Harkin May 11. 2018

    Our kids will follow our lead when it comes to talking about their emotions. We don’t need to have all the answers but we do need to be gutsy!

  • Positive Masculinity – the change has begun

    Understanding Boys, Positive Masculinity by Tom Harkin April 18. 2018

    Our boys need change. In this video, Youth Expert and Positive Masculinity Thought Leader Tom Harkin talks about how we can encourage our boys to feel comfortable to share and show their emotions.

  • The best way to listen to your son

    Understanding Boys February 15. 2018

    Teenage boys aren’t always forthcoming when it comes to personal sharing. So this week, we’re offering a video about listening to your son. Thought leader and expert facilitator Tom Harkin has had a lot of practice creating the right environment to encourage teenage boys to speak up. Try following his tips and you might just […]

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    Understanding Boys by Tom Harkin February 15. 2018
  • How the #StillABoy campaign is challenging gender stereotypes

    Understanding Boys October 04. 2016

    My 4-year-old son’s favourite colour is pink. He has more girl-friends than boy-friends. He sometimes asks me to put his hair in a ponytail. He likes pretending he has a baby in his tummy.

  • Why rites of passage are vital to boys

    Understanding Boys by Dr Arne Rubinstein July 12. 2016

    A quarter of young Australian males have experienced a mental health disorder in the past 12 months. Dr Arne Rubinstein, expert on adolescent development, explains why he believes rites of passage could be the solution our sons need.

  • How gender stereotypes can restrict boys’ learning

    Understanding Boys by Meg Adem June 28. 2016

    Growing research indicates that our gender-based stereotyping can actually restrict our boys’ learning and potential. Should we stop typecasting our kids?

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