Series 4
Conversations about what makes a good man and more
UB Podcast
S4: E3 Daisy TurnbullDaisy Turnbull is a teacher, director of wellbeing, counsellor and now inspiring author of two books, 50 Risks to Take With Your Kids – A guide to building resilience and independence in the first 10 years and the follow up 50 Questions to Ask Your Teens – A guide to fostering communication and confidence in young adults. The books are underpinned by research and her own experience as a teacher of teens.
Daisy is an accredited Lifeline crisis support counsellor and regularly volunteers on the crisis support line and a mother of two children.
We hope you enjoy this episode.
To celebrate our chat with Daisy, we have three copies of each book to give away. If you’d like to get your hands on one of these books on us, leave a comment on our instagram post, telling us:
- What is the most memorable risk you took with your child OR
- What’s a question you ask your teens, whether you liked the answer or not!
You can enter as many times as you like.
Entries close 25 August. Winners will be judged by Ray and his team!
1:02 – Introduction to our guest Daisy Turnbull
1:55 – Daisy Turnbull shares hobbies like crocheting
5:37 – Theory of Flow – Analogy of with projects working with teens or kids
6:50 – Explaining “Flow” as the State of “in the zone”
7:25 – Importance of teenagers embracing flow and working in it rather than fighting it
8:39 – Creating regulations for teenagers
10:38 – Importance of Role modeling
11:04 – Dealing with students in terms of autonomy and engagement levels
12:38 – Experiences and risks with technology
13:42 – Sharing of personal parenting–the traps like overparenting and risks
17:06 – Importance of patience and love as ingredients in parenting
18:15 – Being patient in childcare as results take time
19:40 – Issues and scenarios of parents being in the advocate role
22:34 – Reflection of a parent
24:35 – Relating to impersonations embarrassing parent
25:30 – Insights on parents’ impact on kids
26:13 – Importance of showing up to bridge conversations and time together
27:27 – Risks of parenting in the book
29:06 – Inspirations when writing the book: 50 questions and 50 risks
30:43 – Understanding emotion and having social-emotional literacy – being a man of compassion and respect
33:17 – Impact of domestic violence including emotional-psychological abuse
33:35 – What it is to be a good man these days
36:14 – Stories and experiences to tell young boys and girls
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