Keeping your son safe on the party scene

As your son enters his teenage years, parties and social events become part of the landscape. It’s an exciting time, but also one where safety needs to stay front of mind. So how can you help your child enjoy these experiences while staying protected?

Hosting a Party? Plan Ahead.
If you’re throwing a party, register it with the local police a week beforehand – this doesn’t replace supervision, but it helps. Keep numbers manageable with physical invites or wristbands and avoid posting on social media to prevent gate crashers. If you can, consider hiring security to check invites and help keep things in control.

Alcohol & Teenagers
In Victoria, underage drinking is only legal with a parent or guardian’s permission. If alcohol is involved, get written consent from all parents ahead of time. It’s best to supply the drinks yourself, so you can monitor what’s available. No BYO and have a responsible adult serving. If a guest becomes drunk, stop serving and contact their parents.

Drugs & Violence
Set clear expectations – no tolerance for drugs or aggressive behaviour. If someone brings substances or becomes violent, ask them to leave and contact parents or police if needed. Keep supervision active by walking through the party regularly.

Talk with Your Son
Before he heads out, talk to him about peer pressure, drink spiking, and looking out for his mates. Make sure he knows he can call you anytime, no questions asked. Chat with the host family, know the details, and plan transport.

While he might roll his eyes now, he’ll thank you later. Helping your son navigate the party scene is all about balance – fun, freedom, and smart decision-making.

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